news from Kylanet!

Wow, has it really been a month since our last post? Well, it's not for lack of Kyla material!

First, our big adoption news is that we have, at long last, scheduled our finalization hearing. It will be April 17th, sometime between 2 and 2:30pm. To put thing in prospective, most people finalize around 6 months after meeting the baby. Kyla will be 10 months by the time we go to court and will likely run up, pull the judge's hair, and throw in a fake scream (she loves to pretend to scream --- much better than loud, piercing real screams, for sure). Okay, the "run up" part is a bit optimistic, but not for long. More about that in a minute.

Our post-placement experience has included several steps of snail-paced paperwork, a correction of Indiana paperwork requested by California discovered, oh, four months later, a couple of typos (including Kyla's birthdate) that needed to be corrected, and finally, a couple of weeks delay because when they are all finally ready, Rachel starts teaching on Thursday afternoons! (mind you, she’s had Thursday afternoons, the only time adoption hearings are held, open for months and months and the first week she starts teaching is when dates are available) The original plan was to dash back to work and be there for the rest of the afternoon but a very kind co-worker offered to cover and suggested that we both take the rest of this very special day off to celebrate!

Unfortunately we probably won't have any family here to share this with us. Maybe we'll have to post a video so you can all share with us afterwards. We'll, of course, have a party the weekend following and will be missing all of you who are too far away to celebrate in person with us.

The hearing itself is apparently a very fun formality. It takes about 5 minutes and involves statements like "do you take this child...". I'm sure they have a good supply of tissues on hand. :)



As far as the girl herself, the progress report is varied and exciting.

Standing/walking: She has been on the verge of walking for a while now and is quite adept at standing and walking along things. She can stand unassisted for a good 10 seconds, but then gets so giddy from the experience that she collapses in an infectious and quite maniacal giggle.



Crawling: She crawls with the best of them, scooting along the ground at a high rate of speed. Our latest game is chase the crawler, and she will back you into a corner, get a monster smile, then pounce on you with both hands. See yellow overalls pic for a visualization of the pounce event.


Talking: Not in English, except for some serendipitous syllables that happen to be words. But she is talking constantly. Dahdahdah, bahbahbah, trilling her tongue, brrbrrbrrbrrbrr, mehmeh (we think this one is “milk”), mahmahmah. She also has a 3 octave range which manifests itself in a swooping kind of “Ahhhhh”, as in “Oh, I get it now”.



Eating: We have been a little slow moving her in to the next phase of her life that we cherish a little too much, but have really started to mover her into new foods now. She loves yogurt, most fruits, a little rice, biscuits, and red hot chili peppers doused in wasabi. Still reading? Good, then you likely realize that last one was farcical hooey. But she pretty much sticks anything into her mouth. She makes a great face when trying new foods, scrunches her face in disgust “what the heck are you doing to me you scoundrel???” Then after a few seconds she opens her mouth for the next bite.

Sleep time: We recently had the unenviable task of forcibly changing Kyla’s bedtime from 10-11pm to 8pm. Everyone we heard from and all we read suggested to put her in bed and let her cry thru it, self-soothing. Boy, were we excited to do that! And then after that we could stick needles in our eyes! All kidding aside, we made the decision to try it, and she cried. OHhhhhhh did she cry that first night….for nearly, uh, uhm, 6 minutes. But they were a continuous 6 minutes!!! It was like Armageddon!! The next night was equally horrific, it was nearly 2 minutes.

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Suffice it to say it worked better than we could have possibly imagined and now she is down when we put her down and there is very little fuss. It really makes doing anything in the evening easier, since when she is up, you really don’t do anything else without a tag team effort.



Also new is what we call Kyla. We are continually coming up with nicknames for her since she is such a character. It’s almost impossible not to. Some of the more used ones are:
-Scoochy McPants (requested to be retired by Mommy due to overuse by Daddy)
-Cheeks McGirk
-Chickadee Choo Choo
-KG
-Mini Miss
-Junior
-The Squirt
-Pippy the Squeak